What do women really want? I Think I May Have A Theory

What do women really want? I swear I’m not a complicated woman. No, seriously I’m not. I just want to marry a white man who speaks Yoruba and likes Wizkid and Davido’s music. Is it possible for ...

13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do

Mentally strong people have healthy habits. They manage their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in ways that set them up for success in life. Check out these things that mentally strong people don’t...

TGIF HangOut in Lagos: Chronicles of Mr. Oversabi and My Tampon

TGIF HangOut in Lagos: Chronicles of Mr. Oversabi and My Tampon My old colleague has been asking for us to hangout in Lagos for a while as she constantly shuffles between Calabar and Lagos. Yesterday ...

Sexual Abuse: As a child I was Molested by Three different Men, My Parents Didn’t Believe Me

Sexual Abuse: As a child I was molested by three different men, My Parents Didn’t Believe Me It started with my cousin Precious. I was little then, I almost don’t remember in full detail but t...

I Was Emotionally Available Until I Dated Way Too Many Guys Who Weren’t

I Was Emotionally Available Until I Dated Way Too Many Guys Who Weren’t When I first started dating, I was pretty much an open book. I found it easy to be vulnerable and to let a guy get close to me...

When Everything Seems Out of Reach, This is How I Persevere

When Everything Seems Out of Reach, This is How I Persevere In the past, when everything seems out of reach and nothing at all seems to be working, I’d take everything personally and beat myself...

Harvey Weinstein Sexual Harassment Saga: “Harvey Led Me Into His Bedroom and Offered To Give Me a Massage…”-Lupita Nyong’o

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On Relationship Drama: I Want Love That Gives me Peace of Mind, Even When There’s Conflict

On Relationship Drama: I Want Love That Gives me Peace of Mind, Even When There’s Conflict I saw an image on Instagram that read “I want a love filled with madness, sleepless nights, storm...

Karma? I Have Become an Employee to a Subordinate I laid Off

In 2010 I was a senior manager in a nice firm, my future was bright in the company and I was highly recommended for head of my department. There was a rising star as well, his name is Jacob. I tutored...

Kemi “LaLa” Akindoju: You Need to Show Yourself Worthy before Anyone Else can Invest in you

My name is Kemi “Lala” Akindoju. I am an actor, producer and a casting director. I have also produced stage plays like Vagina monologue, London Life, Lagos Living Being a christian in the entertai...

Love Language: I Discovered My Husband’s Love Language …And It Changed Everything

I Discovered My Husband’s Love Language …And It Changed Everything He said I didn’t support him in his pursuit of his dream career. We’ve had many arguments in our 10+ year relationship, but t...

The Hustle: Why I Believe A Relationship Will Get In The Way Of My Career Ambitions

I hustle hard. As cliché (and almost corny) as it sounds, I thrive off of working hard and coming up with new ideas to put into action. Every day I’m working to get my money up, hoping to one day r...

“Most Men Are Sexists in Business”-Wendy Appelbaum, South African Billionaire.

“Most Men Are Sexists in Business”-Wendy Appelbaum, South African Billionaire. Wendy Appelbaum is the only daughter of South African tycoon Donald Gordon. She previously served as a Direct...

EXCLUSIVE: I have a List of the faces of the 5 Remaining covered Statues in Imo state, Erected by Governor Rochas Okorocha

EXCLUSIVE: I have a List of the faces of the 5 Remaining covered Statues in Imo state, Erected by Governor Rochas Okorocha DID YOU KNOW…THERE ARE MORE STATUES YET TO BE UNVEILED BY HIS EXCELLENC...

When Your Ex Fiancé Doesn’t Want His Engagement Ring Back…Here’s Why.

When Your Ex Fiancé Doesn’t Want His Engagement Ring Back…Here’s Why. I saw this Image of a text message (On Bored Panda) between a formerly engaged couple, where the man was asking...

Dear Iyabo Ojo, If You Marry Solely For Money, You’ll Earn Every Penny

Dear Iyabo Ojo, Yesterday, Punch Newspaper carried an interview of you bluntly saying you cannot marry a poor man. I admire people who are honest with respect to criteria, especially in a society wher...

“How To Achieve Lasting Success as an Entrepreneur”- Tony Elumelu

“How To Achieve Lasting Success as an Entrepreneur”- Tony Elumelu “The first thing I tell people is that you should dream BIG. No limitations, no boundaries; feel free to dream. The ...

Airport Chronicles: How is it A Good Idea To Travel in High Heels?

Airport Chronicles: How is it A Good Idea To Travel in High Heels? Yesterday as I arrived ATL Airport, I noticed a young lady walking in pain. There was no need to question her gait, she was wearing h...

My Gangster Experience: Houston Travel Diary

Houston Travel Diary: My Gangster Experience All day yesterday, I wasn’t feeling so good. Around 7pm, I decided to take a walk around the hotel, get a drink at the bar and some fresh air. I was arme...