#Flashbackfriday The childhood prank that earned me the worst beating ever

I believe I was around 9/10, it was environmental sanitation day. My friends dared me to climb into the well and scrape water from the bottom because the well was almost dry and we didn’t want to go...

Would I be labelled a bad mum if I took my stubborn son to live with his paternal grandparents?

Is it wrong to take my 10 year old son to his paternal family? He’s stubborn, everything like his father and I mean 100% genetics because he hasn’t met his dad yet! (my worst mistake ) I a...

Do not ignore the Red Flags in any relationship, always keep your eyes open.

                                                         So often the term ‘Red Flag’ is used when talking about a romantic relationship, but no one ever talks abo...

My Husband Was My Rebound Guy. I Am Still In Love With My Ex

Precisely 16 years ago when I was 18 and in the University, I met my first true love during a short break at home. He sat down behind me in church and gave me his card and that was the start of our sh...

My Sister Wants Me To Care For Her Kids And Not Work

  Last year, after leaving the university, I came to stay with my elder sister because she was heavily pregnant and was almost due to give birth. I decided to stay with her because she had no one...

‘I Felt I Was not a Good Mom’ – Serena Williams Details Post-partum Struggles

23-time grand slam singles champion Serena Wlliams has explained her recent struggles after child birth in a revealing post on social media. According to her: “Last week was not easy for me. Not onl...

Today, A Man Fed My Eyes With The Most Unsightly Image

Most times, we hear people say women are the ones who harass men with their looks, types of clothing and the different ways they flirt. No disputing that but I’ll say that sometimes, it is the o...

The Bold Step I Took Moving Out Of My Parent’s House And How It Worked For Me

    I knew telling my Dad I was moving out -regardless of the fact that I was in my late twenties at the time- was perhaps the most difficult thing I would ever have to do. So I did it via a...

Ignoring The Signs Is A Good Way To End Up At The Wrong Destination : Diary of an Abused Woman

This year would make it 7 years since I got married to a supposed God-fearing man but he is a beast with the rage of the devil. We met in Church, he was a worker, who has been working in the vineyard ...

Meet Amanda, The Courageous 4 year old With The Brain Defect.

Amanda is a hydranencephaly (a central nervous disorder characterized by a large head and neurological deficits). I found out about Amanda’s condition after doing a scan seven months into the pr...

My Name is Rika Cargill. I Have Survived Breast Cancer Twice

Rika’s personal experience with Breast cancer began in August 2012 when she discovered something unusual about her breast after giving birth to her son, George. A breast cancer diagnosis soon follow...

Being The Other Woman: Letter To My Lover’s Wife

Dear Ma, I’ll address you that way because I still have the utmost respect for you and your home. I never expected to be writing this letter, and I am pretty sure you never expected you would ev...

Sexual Abuse: As a child I was Molested by Three different Men, My Parents Didn’t Believe Me

Sexual Abuse: As a child I was molested by three different men, My Parents Didn’t Believe Me It started with my cousin Precious. I was little then, I almost don’t remember in full detail but t...

Harvey Weinstein Sexual Harassment Saga: “Harvey Led Me Into His Bedroom and Offered To Give Me a Massage…”-Lupita Nyong’o

Harvey Weinstein Sexual Harassment Saga: “Harvey Led Me Into His Bedroom and Offered To Give Me a Massage…”-Lupita Nyong’o “I met Harvey Weinstein in 2011 at an awards ce...

One Night Stand: Diary of A Neglected Married Woman

One night stand from a married woman’s experience  I had a one night stand. As I type this I cannot even believe it happened to me. I feel like I was outside of my body and watched someone else...

Diary of A Celebrity Wife: Being A Celebrity Wife is Not The Same As Marrying A Regular Guy

Diary of A Celebrity Wife Being a celebrity wife seems glamorous, it is exciting and sometimes you feel untouchable. Reading comments concerning Kevin Hart’s scandal drove me to write this article a...

Do Not Have A Baby To Fix Your Marriage. I Tried It, I Failed

I do not write this from a place of regret. My conscience is clear when I look back and see that I did all I could to save a marriage that turned sour for reasons I couldn’t fathom at the time There...

Orphaned at 17, I Automatically Became a Mother of Four to My Siblings: Here is How We Survived

Hello DANG, I’m not a writer but I feel an urge to share this Today makes it 15 years I’ve been an orphan. My parents were decent civil Servants: Mum a teacher and jack of any trade she was in...

So She Wouldn’t Choke to Death, Baby Zaniyah was Dangled from a Burning Apartment Until Help Came

There’s not a scratch on her face, not a mark on either of her tiny hands. “My baby is doing fine,” Zaniyah’s mother, Saschelle Hewitt, said before she cradled her beaming daug...