Even as a doctor, I prayed against CS and it almost cost me. #DANGdoctor Adeleye- Oshunpidan Wumi

Most times when women are told they will have a C section, I hear a lot of “I reject it in Jesus name, it’s not my portion, awuzubillahi.” I thought I knew better until I was in thos...

What Do I Do When My Husband Loves Me But Does Not Respect My Parents

I have been married for 2 years and my husband is wonderful. I mean no marriage is perfect but we try to make it work. He is really understanding and hardworking. Unfortunately I have been unable to w...

Maybe he was an abuser, maybe he just handled hurt the wrong way, I will never know for sure

I was in a very toxic abusive relationship, extremely toxic. I really do not want to address my abuser as a he hence I will just say “the past.” The past was the best and probably one of t...

Stop lying to your doctors hoping for a miracle. You are at risk of being misdiagnosed. Please help your doctor to help you. #DANGDoctor Monisola Adanijo

One topic that really bothers me as a physician is how patients are not completely honest with their doctors. A young lady was brought to the emergency room with a few days history of difficulty in br...

I am proof that being a good girl does not guarantee you being loved

I’m not much of a writer but somehow I felt that if I just write my story and the post you shared about being a good girl doesn’t guarantee you being loved kind of spurred me . I might fee...

Why I left my Lazy Cheating Husband And Started All Over Again

The story of the cheating husband and the one about the lady who read her fiance’s chat with his friend inspired me to write this. Hmmmm! Let me tell my story. I am recently separated and filin...

The Fear Of My Daughter Being Molested Has Made Me Paranoid Of Every Male Around

I am a mum of 4 kids. 2 girls and 2 boys. I have plenty relatives living in my house at any particular time. Everyday we read about perverts defiling young girls and even fathers molesting their daugh...

I Wish My Boyfriend Understands Forgiveness But Unfortunately, He Doesn’t

So I had left a toxic relationship abruptly, (you know that sort of relationship where you have been meaning to move from but it’s hard, because love …But you wake up one day and you leave, yo...

A tribute to My Dad And Others Like Him Who Taught Us Confidence

  My first brush with gender role crises was very early. My father was a nurse you see, and as a 3 or 4 year old philosopher, I hypothesised that doctors are the male version of nurses, kind of l...

There Is No Harm In Being Polite To Officials Doing Their Jobs

 I love to be a “good Nigerian” obeying traffic rules, not driving without a valid license and obeying police instructions, just because I don’t want to give any law enforcement official any re...

How Can A Wife Or Girlfriend Ask Her Husband Or Boyfriend For Money?

There has been something bothering me and this is something that is very important in a marriage or relationship. It is the issue of ” Requesting for Money”. Please I need to know, how can...

He says he has forgiven my infidelity but he still won’t let us continue dating

I’m burdened by an issue of forgiveness. This topic has raised a lot of questions in my head yet I am left perplexed and confused. I have been in a fix for almost 2 years and I am here questioning m...

I let my guard down, fell in love and this happened

Been staring at a particular hand bag sitting on my dressing table for the past few hours and the story behind that bag sent me down memory lane…. One of the numerous bags ‘A’ bought...

On Raising Good Boys Into Good Men

There are 2 women in my life that serve as good examples of how I will raise my son. They are my Mum and my Mum-in-law (I call her Mummy). My superhero Mum has raised my 2 brothers to respect and valu...

Why I would consider getting surgery done in the twinkle of an eye

Sitting in conversation with my friend recently, the subject of surgery came up and I am sure I shocked her a bit when I answered in the affirmative when asked if I would ever consider getting my body...

#Flashbackfriday The childhood prank that earned me the worst beating ever

I believe I was around 9/10, it was environmental sanitation day. My friends dared me to climb into the well and scrape water from the bottom because the well was almost dry and we didn’t want to go...

Would I be labelled a bad mum if I took my stubborn son to live with his paternal grandparents?

Is it wrong to take my 10 year old son to his paternal family? He’s stubborn, everything like his father and I mean 100% genetics because he hasn’t met his dad yet! (my worst mistake ) I a...

Do not ignore the Red Flags in any relationship, always keep your eyes open.

                                                         So often the term ‘Red Flag’ is used when talking about a romantic relationship, but no one ever talks abo...

My Husband Was My Rebound Guy. I Am Still In Love With My Ex

Precisely 16 years ago when I was 18 and in the University, I met my first true love during a short break at home. He sat down behind me in church and gave me his card and that was the start of our sh...