“Love is Not Enough But It is Key”: Mr and Mrs Sunday Oladimeji, Married for 41 Years

Love is not Enough But It is Key My name is Sunday Oladimeji. This is my wife, Mrs Titilayo Oladimeji We got married in 1976. The moment I saw her at a party in Ogbomosho in 1975 I knew she would be m...

I Found Out My Friends Were My Biggest Haters

I Found Out My Friends Were My Biggest Haters A few months ago, a friend of mine who I met through work invited me to come with her on a trip with two of her girlfriends. I was desperately wanting to ...

I am a Quitter, I have Records to Show For it

I know some who know me would say I am very hardworking, which I am, when I want to be, while I’m at it.. but then I quit… a lot. And since my record of being a quitter has become so long,...

Body Image:”I Compared Myself to Others and Became Focused on What I Saw in the Mirror” Nicola King

“My name is Nicola King, I’m 24 years old. When I was 16, I became obsessed with my weight (Body Image) and started counting calories which led me to become sick. Shortly after, I was diagnosed wi...

“I will only Go For Polygamy Marriage” Haleema Muhammad

“I will only go for polygamy marriage, says Birmingham woman Haleema Muhammad Haleema travelled to her home country Somalia more than a decade ago and decided to marry a man who already had thre...

Linda Ikeji, Chigul, Betty Irabor On the Pressure To Marry Before 30

“But don’t you want to get married soon?” This question comes up a lot in your thirties because at that age the traditional mindset is that that you’ve had plenty of time to date, and ...

Diary of A Nigerian Girl: This is My Reality as a HouseWife

My reality as a housewife has been far from the dream. The day I danced out of my father’s arms into that of my husband, was the day I danced from freedom to societal imprisonment Many females d...

Diary of A Naija Guy: Letter To My Unborn Daughter – Benjamin Chi

Hi butterfly, You know, sometimes I look around the world we live in today and it frightens me that someday you’ll be exposed to all this. Humans are an odd bunch, you’ll come to realise quickly e...