Let Loneliness Spur you into Finding Something to Live For

I used to complain to God, my sister and my friends about being lonely. Thinking back, I was lonely because there was nothing really exciting happening and I had come to accept that only boys and thei...

Kokoro, Mr fake Accent and I

This is the story of “kokoro”. You may be too crème to know what this is, I can’t really help you. Google it Sometime this week I walked into Ghana High (A local restaurant in Lagos...

When I Become A Grandmother: Zero Chill Zone

I’ve always wondered the kind of person I would be as a grandma. I know I’ll be the hot cool forever young grandma. Still following fashion trends and moving with the times Due to experien...

The Waiting Game: When Restraint is Desperately Needed

Recently I met a guy who sent me straight to Jesus asking for strength. I am not in a desperate place, I am simply living my life and loving it while setting myself up for Mr. Right. Then this Mr. cam...

Beware of Fine Boys

Let me tell you…don’t ever see a fine boy and assume all is well with him. I found out a hard way yesterday I was on my way up the elevator to see my client but as soon I sighted a fine bo...

Tokophobia: I Am Afraid of ChildBirth

As people have pervasive or seemingly illogical fears about heights or small spaces, a lot of women have a pathological fear of pregnancy and childbirth; myself included. However, because there is an ...

The God Factor

God is not an invention or a story our fore fathers cooked up to create fear The death of Jesus Christ is not a myth to me. It is real, Sometimes I don’t understand it because I have never felt ...

Depression: My Story

Depression: I have been there, I can personally define it Everything is going so well, and suddenly there’s a huge stone in your chest. The weight is brought upon by a memory, pain, disappointment, ...

Instagram: Nothing is ever as it seems

Yesterday night while I was trolling Instagram I came across the make up free face of a popular celebrity. Let me tell you, it was not the image I would ever imagine seeing of her. She had bags under ...

Banky W: When Will You marry?

I have a feeling you’re dating someone under the radar. If you aren’t dating right now then I’ll be forced to start worrying about you. I’m tired of seeing you being the best m...