One Thing Real Love Never Does to You

Real love never limits you… it doesn’t restrict you… it doesn’t try to change you… it doesn’t entitle you, or anyone, to anything. People are sometimes led to have a sense of entitlement b...

Our Generation Has Ruined Being Single and Happy

Our generation has ruined being Single and happy We are told that if we are not in a relationship, we are not wanted. They have told us that in order to be accepted, we need to receive love from someo...

This Couple Was Married for 87 Years. And Now They Are Sharing Their Secrets With You!

Some things have stood the test of time; Zelmyra and Herbert Fisher are a shining example of love’s longevity. They made a commitment to spend all of their tomorrows together on May 13, 1924. They s...

Finding Diamonds in the Rubble: The Story of Elikem and Pokello

I remember Elikem and Pokelo when they were both on Big Brother Africa. Elikem was a struggling tailor while Pokello was a boss lady, owned her own premium shoe store and was from a rich home. It didn...

Guarded: How I Learned To Love The Walls I Built – Iman Milner

“You’re too guarded,” he said. This was his reason. This was why he couldn’t see me for me even after the better part of a year spent loving and building together. I cried on the other side of...

Should Married Couples Share a Joint Account? A Naija Guy Perspective – Femi Oladehin

One of the big financial decisions you must make as a couple post wedding is whether to keep a joint account or not. In the spirit of full disclosure, I am totally not a fan of joint accounts and I ho...

Mr and Mrs Sunday Oladimeji: Married for 41 Years, Still Going Strong

My name is Sunday Oladimeji. This is my wife, Mrs Titilayo Oladimeji We got married in 1976. The moment I saw her at a party in Ogbomosho in 1975 I knew she would be my wife. She was sitting by hersel...

The Waiting Game: When Restraint is Desperately Needed

Recently I met a guy who sent me straight to Jesus asking for strength. I am not in a desperate place, I am simply living my life and loving it while setting myself up for Mr. Right. Then this Mr. cam...

Why Letting Go of “The One” is Okay

Sometime this year I let go of the one person I thought was “the one”. The one I had a strong conviction about, maybe because he did all the right things and made me think it was time to breathe a...

Don’t Be That Girl: Over 30, Single, Desperate and Worried

This woman, we know her, we are her, or like me, we were that girl. This is the woman who is continuosly obsessed with trying to find a man or CONSTANTLY sad about not having one. So she becomes despe...

Be with someone who always wants to know how your day was

During a conversation, I rarely cut people off and I always listen to understand not to respond. So I guess this guy whom I considered dating knew this and took full advantage. This man would call me,...