#Metoo: I was Sexually Abused by My Mum’s Friend, Now I Can Only Be With Older Women

I am 32 Years Old, I should be normal, date like every other kid out there but, even though I hate my childhood, I am mentally attached to it. I am quite tall which means at 11 Years-old, I was taller...

Karma? I Have Become an Employee to a Subordinate I laid Off

In 2010 I was a senior manager in a nice firm, my future was bright in the company and I was highly recommended for head of my department. There was a rising star as well, his name is Jacob. I tutored...

Women Bear The Pain Of Childbirth. We Bear The heavy Burden of Responsibility. Unlike Women, We Are Not Allowed To Complain

I have read with respect the way women elevate their position as child bearers and praise themselves and one another. There’s nothing wrong with this but what I do not understand is the complete...

RE: Finding A Nice Guy: A Play Boy Can Be A Nice Guy to A Woman He Truly Loves; A Nice Guy Can Be A Demon To A Woman He Feels Nothing for

RE: Finding A Nice Guy: A Play Boy Can Be A Nice Guy to A Woman He Truly Loves; A Nice Guy Can Be A Demon To A Woman He Feels Nothing for I have always seen myself as someone who is living in a movie,...

Diary of a Naija Guy: Marriages in Nigeria and Most parts of Africa are sustained by women

Marriages in Nigeria and most parts of Africa are sustained by women. You can argue this with your village deity. Women in general, put up with a lot of bullshit just to make their marriages work. Fro...

Domestic Violence: My Wife Physically Abused Me For Months, I Have A Scar on my Face To show For It

Domestic Violence: My Wife Physically Abused Me For Months, I Have A Scar on my Face To show For It I met my wife during our MBA abroad. It was easy for us to connect as there were not many Nigerians ...

My Father-in-Law Called Off My Engagement With His Daughter Because I didn’t ask For his Blessing First. Are we in 1920?

I got engaged to my girlfriend of two years during our holiday in Europe. It wasn’t planned, I just woke up beside her one day and decided it was time. My fiancée immediately called her mum to tell...

After Leaving A Bad Marriage, I Vowed Never to Get Married Again. Then I Met Titilayo, She Was Not The Typical Nigerian Girl

After Leaving A Bad Marriage, I Vowed Never to Get Married Again. Then I Met Titilayo, She Was Not The Typical Nigerian Girl This is my reponse to your post about women being domestic to attract men. ...

Candid Chat with Odion: A Man Whose Wife Was Forced To Solely Provide For The Family After He Lost His Job

I have known Odion’s family for over 5 years. When he lost his job, I became even more envious of his wife. She would tell me “I’m always waiting for the other shoe to drop. He’...

Diary of A Naija Guy: What is Marriage Really About?Turning Your Wife into A Househelp?

What is marriage really about? There’s a married couple staying close to my apartment and they quarrel almost everyday. When they start fighting, you will hardly hear the woman’s voice but...

Women fake Orgasm: I’m 42 Years Old, How come I’m just Knowing This? – Diary of A Naija Guy

Women fake Orgasm: I’m 42 Years Old, How come I’m just Knowing This? Dear DANG I must tell you that I feel like an absolute klutz. I am a 42 year old recently divorced man and my ex wife told me l...

Fela Kuti, The Legend- #MCM

1. “My name is Fela Anikulapo-Kuti. Black president or Chief Priest of Shrine.” Fela’s introduction of himself. 2. “I must identify myself with Africa. Then I will have an identity.” How he ...

Domestic Violence has a Cause. If the women can avoid the cause, they can avoid the Violence: Technology and ‘yeye’ Equality has rendered most of our women senseless – Kay kross

The way people talk about domestic violence these days is making me think I don’t know what it is. Maybe I don’t know much, but I want to say the little I know.   Most of the so called fe...

Diary of A Naija Guy: Letter To My Unborn Daughter – Benjamin Chi

Hi butterfly, You know, sometimes I look around the world we live in today and it frightens me that someday you’ll be exposed to all this. Humans are an odd bunch, you’ll come to realise quickly e...

IGP Idris Abandons Primary Duties, Leads Police Delegation To Visit President Buhari In The UK – Ayoola Ajayi

IGP Idris Abandons Primary Duties, Leads Police Delegation To Visit President Buhari In The UK Do you know that smile? The one that spreads across your visage when you’re mad at someone and they...

Should Married Couples Share a Joint Account? A Naija Guy Perspective – Femi Oladehin

One of the big financial decisions you must make as a couple post wedding is whether to keep a joint account or not. In the spirit of full disclosure, I am totally not a fan of joint accounts and I ho...

70 Year Old Folorunsho Oyewo’s Life Lessons

My name is Folorunsho Oyewo. I am 70years old, it is poverty that made me look like this o. I worked at Wema bank in the funds transfer/FX department. It was part of Odua Investments back in the day...