Is it wrong to take my 10 year old son to his paternal family? He’s stubborn, everything like his father and I mean 100% genetics because he hasn’t met his dad yet! (my worst mistake ) I am gradually going into depression because I have had to single-handedly raise him even while i was in school (which resulted into my graduating with a THIRD CLASS – B.sc! Far below my capabilities).
I feel so terrible giving this a thought but I have tried to do the best for him yet I get bad reports all round. Would I be labelled a bad mum if I take him to them? We were never married &no form of help has ever come from his father.
Am I a bad mum for wanting to do this??? With 68k as my salary ( that’s thankfully what I could get with my ND Cert as I am currently serving),yet he’s in a school where I pay #100k plus as fees just because I felt that would make it all better but NO! It only gets worse by the day…
What do I do exactly? I haven’t had a relationship or even a date like forever because everything I do revolves around him and when he’d be back from school, just so he doesn’t stay home alone to avoid stories (even Nysc camp, I was there for just 5 days yet I got back to complaints and reports).
I am sincerely tired! Yes,I love him greatly but now he’s gradually taking my happiness away… What do I do with my son???
Written by anonymous for Diaryofanaijagirl