My Husband Was My Rebound Guy. I Am Still In Love With My Ex

8 August 16, 2018 By Dang

Precisely 16 years ago when I was 18 and in the University, I met my first true love during a short break at home.

He sat down behind me in church and gave me his card and that was the start of our short time together. He wanted us to get married asap,I was in part 3 and I just could not.  He wasn’t patient as he was 10 years older and was ready to settle down but I was not ready.

Abruptly after a weekend of coming to see him, he cut off the relationship – no good bye, no tangible reason. I was broken  and I failed woefully that semester.

Fast forward to 6 months after a friend brought an invite for a wedding she wanted me to attend with her and it was my darling getting married to someone he met in 6 months.

I was broken when I realised this. I called him and insulted him so bad. After he got married, we would meet up someplace but my anger would well up and we would cut it off again but still, that guy had my mumu button.

16 years after we moved into a new house and I find out that we are neighbors, Imagine Northern Foreshore & Bourdillon court on Chevron Drive. We bump into each other every moment,fuel station, Ebeano all the common areas.

We rekindled our affair and the sex is everything and more,we both have kids.

I can’t let him go because he’s my true love and though, has been married for 13 years and I 11 years, I still love him.

Don’t judge me but that guy was my true love and my husband is just a rebound to my true love.

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8 comments on “My Husband Was My Rebound Guy. I Am Still In Love With My Ex

  1. Anonymous

    Sigh , the problem is the grass always appears greener in someone else’s garden . Don’t get me wrong I am not trying to dismiss your feelings , and now you’ve crossed the line I’m not sure you would turn back .


  2. Anonymous

    One of the hardest things to do is letting go of someone you love that loves you in return. I met someone 10years ago and fell in love with him. The feeling is still the same till this minute but we’re not together. It is sad.


  3. Ross

    You’re not in love. You just refused to face reality and are being selfish. You and the guy are the same really. If he loved you, he’d have married you. No story. He would have waited. He wasnt a man in love when you met. He was a man looking for a body to bear him children and cook him food.
    If not, he would have waited. You said it yourself. He was “ready” and you weren’t .
    Now you get married to a man and cheat on him with a man who didnt love you enough to wait whilst you got an education and grew into a woman.
    Not worth it


  4. For the love of God

    I get it but i don’t condone the affair. You have to remember that love is patient and kind. If someone hurts you and marries someone else. Sorry but you can’t claim to have loved me. This happened to me but I though we could be friends but no we couldn’t so feeling were to strong. Deleted him off every platform except linked in. He tried it though but I am no fool. After stoning my love in my face and marrying someone else. Regardless off my feelings I am not acting on it. Plus I actually love my hubby and family too much to comprise then in such a way.



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