“Mama, We made It!” – Richard Mofe-Damijo (RMD)
Many many years ago after I had passed my higher school certificate examination, Mama Rich asked me what I was going to study at the university, I said theatre arts. I could tell she wasn’t happy at all. That didn’t sound like the LAWYER her cousin had suggested I should become.
Tears in her eyes she kept begging me to study law. I knew she couldn’t argue the case any further not because she was illiterate but the fact that as her only child she had also come to trust me a little bit. Also my stubbornness or resolve won’t allow me shift grounds. She knows her Eyimofe. She also knew her tears moved me. Read:God Knew I Needed My Past Experiences To Be Able to Deal With My Present Success” -Ramsey Nouah
So, very slowly I took her hands held them tight and looked into her eyes and assured her not to worry that I will be ok. We will be ok. That she will be “seeing me on television”. This was 1980. At this time I wasn’t sure how many Warri boys had “made it to television” let alone me the skinny boy from Welfare Road.
Thankfully she didn’t have to wait too long. 2 years later I got my first tv role… Emeka. The play ‘Wrath of the Gods’ was an instant hit and winner of many awards. It wasn’t just my victory, it was hers as well. Her son had done well, not as a lawyer but an actor. After all how many lawyers made it “to television” at that time in Warri or Nigeria as a whole and none of her friends children had been on television, so there she earned her first bragging rights. Her son was famous, lawyer or not.
She went to her grave happy.
Years later I would also become the LAWYER she so wanted me to be. Unfortunately she didn’t see me wear the wig and take photos with me. Not to worry, she went to heaven not only as Mama Rich but Mama Emeka, the other name her son was called as an actor in his first tv role.
Here we are Mama Rich, 37 years later we have made it… Your Eyimofe is an Actor, Lawyer and so much more. Thank you Mama Rich for all the sacrifices, Eyimofe loves you.
The story “Mama We Made it” was taken from Richard Mofe-Damijo ‘s instagram account @mofedamijo