9 Signs You’re Doing Better Than You Think You Are

Photo credit: istock 1 May 17, 2017 By Dang

As a reminder that everything is going to be okay, here are 9 signs you’re doing better than you think you are:

You’ve got a roof over your head…

Now, you may not have the means to splurge on this season’s hottest bag. But you’re capable of providing, putting food on the table — you’ve got clean water, the lights are on, and, occasionally, you’ve got a little extra to spare on a “good morning” latte. Because it’s the small things (we often neglect the most) that make all the difference!

You’ve got a solid support system…

I’m not telling you to squad up, a la Taylor Swift. Your “support system” could be a trusted teacher, neighbor, childhood friend — anyone that’ll hold you accountable — but more importantly, will pray with you. Often, when we face hard times, we neglect the many blessings we currently possess. This person will kindly remind you that you’re doing better than you think you are! Everything will be okay.

You’ve got a little something to look forward to…

While you may not be in the best mood, drowning in bills, or worse, thrown in the towel altogether, holding on to that ONE goal – for example, finishing your degree — will provide you with the ammunition you need to just keep swimming.

You’ve learned from your mistakes…

While I certainly don’t have all the answers, one thing I’ve learned (countless times), is that there is no one way to approach this little thing called life. Remember this: as long as you make the conscious decision to get up when you fall, failure is nothing but a fallacy. Anything is attainable if you never give up!

READ ALSO:  Forget What People Want. It's Your Life. What Do You Want?

You’ve become somewhat of a chameleon…

Change is inevitable. It’s how you approach a new season that makes all the difference. If you’re able to approach life’s disasters with a little grace – not saying it’ll always be easy – you’ve nailed it. Coping skills are crucial when it comes to success. If you don’t work at developing these skills, failure will eat you up repeatedly, honey!

You know there’s more to life than material things…

In today’s social age, it’s easy to get caught up trying to “Keep Up with the Joneses.” Only, truth is, genuine happiness doesn’t come by way of material things. Fortunately, knowing is half the battle. If you’re aware that joy doesn’t lie in that Birkin bag, a new car, or a bigger house, you’re prioritizing areas of your life that are lifelong and hold real value: family, friends, or your career.

You’ve chosen happiness on your terms…

You’ve stopped chasing the world’s definition of happiness, and have begun to define your own path. It’s not about the chase, but recognizing that happiness is right at your feet – if you just take a minute to stop and smell the roses. Read: Let Loneliness Spur you into something to live for

You’ve got some stories for the grandkids…

What’s life without taking a few risks? Much like taking a leap of faith, jumping head first here or there is a great learning tool, which will equip you will the skills necessary to take on whatever hiccups the universe throws your way. Even better, you’ll have an arsenal of stories to tell.

READ ALSO:  I Disguised As A Man To Work in The Mines, Until I was Accused of Rape - Pili Hussein

Last, but certainly not least…

You remember who you are…

These words are ones I’ve heard since I was a child. Since I can remember, my father would yell, “Remember who you are,” as I ran out the door to school, basketball practice, hang out with friends, start my first job – you name it. While I didn’t quite understand the meaning as a youngster, as an adult, I get it.

As I stated earlier, life is chock full of transitioning periods. Nothing is set in stone. You will encounter all kinds of people, face all kinds of hardships, and you will fail from time to time. Still, you don’t let a little fork in the road, disappointment, or loss change you. You are resilient. You are strong. You are someone who, when knocked down, responds with a quick upper cut. You remember who you are and where you’re going. Trust, that alone will help you sleep better at night.

Keep going, sis!

From: Ruu Hawkins for XONecole

SHARE THIS ARTICLE

One comment on “9 Signs You’re Doing Better Than You Think You Are

Leave a comment

You can ignore name and email and it will be Anonymous.

%d bloggers like this: