The way people talk about domestic violence these days is making me think I don’t know what it is. Maybe I don’t know much, but I want to say the little I know.
Most of the so called female celebs and women generally are beginning to make it seem like a gender thing. It’s like domestic violence is only ?when a man beats a woman or harasses a woman domestically. How come nobody is talking about men suffering domestic violence? Because everyday, the women come out to complain.
The latest is our Nollywood sister, (I will not mention names).A woman who starves her husband is also violating him. Food, sex, attention etc. Or is it because the men don’t come out to talk? When the women are running their mouths and feeling in charge, nobody complains. When a man fights back, everyone starts calling the man names
The past few years, we have seen and heard about our so called celebrity wives facing domestic violence. There are women that are married to celebrity husbands and we hardly hear of any case of domestic violence. Why? Is it that the celebrity husbands don’t know how to beat women? Power and fame are two dangerous tools if they get into the wrong hands
Only a few women can handle fame. Once they get that fame and power, they never want to be tamed.
Don’t get me wrong, no human should beat up another human? I once saw a woman insulting her husband and dragging him. The man kept quiet. She held on to his belt, dragging and hitting him. The man eventually pushed her away so he could avoid her wahala. She fell and hit her face. Her face became swollen and she called police that her husband did it to her.
Some husbands have troublesome and nagging wives. Women that use words to molest and reduce men. What happened to happy marriages? Technology and ‘yeye’ equality has rendered most of our women senseless. Our fathers and mothers were never like this. Since I was born till date, I’ve never heard or seen my dad hit my mom. Why? The woman knows her place and respects her husband.
My opinion is this. Everything has a cause. Domestic violence has a cause. If the women can avoid the cause, they can avoid the violence. In Nigeria, who cries first is always the victim. The men will never cry out because they are men but some are going through hell in their homes
They can probably tell their close friends but not the public. The woman will always let everything out once the man fights back. All thanks to social media, nothing is hidden. I’m not saying some men don’t beat their wives but objects in the mirror are closer than they appear. Most times, the women drive them into it. Most times, the women violate the men and as men, they keep quiet based on logistics and pride as men. ?No man would be proud to say his wife beat him up.
Let me say this again!? I don’t support a man beating his wife. All I’m saying is, if these so called female celebs would pay more attention to their homes, they would have happy marriages. They are always on social media, shows, movie sets, etc they hardly stay at home.
Even God knew Adam would cause war if left alone. The Bible said that God saw that IT WAS NOT GOOD TO LEAVE MAN ALONE so He created a woman.
Everything is going wrong because everyone wants equality. The women are no longer submissive. They start earning more than their husbands and boom! They want to be the head and the men… You know what happens next
And when the men talk, they don’t listen because they are now the head. When the men realize that their wives don’t listen, they use force to remind them that they are still the head.Then the stupid woman comes out to “Say no to domestic violence”.
Only a mad man, a possessed man and a drunk man would beat a woman without reason. Know your place as a wife, respect your husband, create time for your family, pay less attention to the public and build your home. Social media won’t help you.
Say no to domestic violence, pray more and talk less.
God Is Love Always
#DANG Kay kross