My Friend Likes The Same Guy I Want To Be In A Relationship With

I met Jonathan a few days before my best friend Bekky met him too. The very first day I met him we didn’t really get to talk, but merely exchanged contacts and I was indeed astonished by how calm an...

Why You Should Step Outside Your Comfort Zone

  Humans are creatures of comfort. Our comfort zone is our natural, neutral state — a place where stress and anxiety are minimal, where we know what’s coming next and can plan accordi...

How do you cope when you stumble on Your boyfriend’s traditional marriage pictures on Instagram

My cousin called me few hours ago to share her ordeal with me and I felt I should share it as well. Few days back, I had a dream about my cousin preparing for her wedding, there was so much joy in the...

How To Deal With Disappointment When Life Deals With You

For me, disappointment is one of life’s most uncomfortable feelings. It’s complex, containing a subset of other emotions like anger, hurt, sadness, and probably many others too subtle to identify...

It Still Hurts But I Know God Took My One Day Old Son Away For A Reason

“O ti mu o!!!!!!!” my sister shouted from the room after she saw me suddenly go down on my knees almost immediately I got up to pick my cake mixer from the dinning table. “You can&#...

On the Topic of Regret: A Resolution That We All Have To Deal With

I was on a reporting trip and once it had come to a close, I decided to stick around for another week to explore the city of Berlin on my own. I was preparing to celebrate my 22nd birthday, and I was ...

My Marriage Took All From Me But Finally, I Found The Courage To Leave

I am 28 years old and have been separated from my husband for almost a year now. Between, we were married for 3 years. I realised there was absolutely nothing my husband was offering in the marriage a...

Can living separately be the solution to crisis in a home?

At the end of 2013, my wife and I had reached a breaking point. Divorce appeared inevitable. Then, out of desperation, the idea of living apart together was raised. For nearly two years we managed ...

I know He Loves Me But How Do I Get Over His Looks

I have known this man and we have been friends for years. I can be myself around him and he’s completely in love with all of me (mind included), I know this over time because I have done everyth...

I think that if I had married someone closer to me in age, my home would be happier

The thing is I’ve been married for almost four years now and in this time if I put together the times I’ve been genuinely happy, I don’t think its even 3 months. My husband is really...

I Knew I Had To Find Myself By First Losing Myself

Growing up in a small town in Western Canada, I was known as the kid who accomplished things. I was the well-mannered and conscientious child who skipped grade two, was at the top of her class, played...

When a man has made money, he should make a noble use of it

Recently an old man, over eighty years of age, lay on his death-bed. He could no longer keep possession of the wealth he had accumulated. In a few hours, he must leave it to the world from which he ha...

Dear Nigerians, medication is not food. Stop the misuse of drugs. #DANGDoctor Oluwatosin Osikoya

I was in a store which had both a pharmacy and a mart. The store is owned by a pharmacist. I was waiting behind someone who was being attended to when this man came in and began to talk to an attendan...

We discovered we were both AS but I was already Pregnant

Anna met Dele… I feel like that could be the beginning and the end of my story. Anna met Dele. Have you ever met someone who singularly divides your life into two? The time before and the time a...

Airport Chronicles: Flight attendant gets introduced to Nigerian religion. It seems to me, she may still be shook!

I’m going on holiday to the abroad. You know, holiday where you sleep, eat, read good books, hang out with family and friends, attend a gathering or two and simply live like there’s no wor...

My Travel Diary: The Crayfish That Almost Got Me In Trouble

When I travel, I never carry food for my family, not even noodles. I hate to get in trouble with immigration because that happened once and I was flagged for a long time. On this trip, things were dif...

#ThrowbackThursday: Shopping in Lagos, My Encounter With Hulk Hogan

Shopping in Lagos: My Encounter With Hulk Hogan Yesterday at the grocery store car park, there was an incident, and yours truly was a participant. You know how you drive around the Ebeano car park on ...

12 Effective Ways to Build Entrepreneurial Skills That Matter

Becoming your own boss and an entrepreneur is the new coveted career choice of the 21st century. People are fed up with working jobs that leave them underpaid and unfulfilled. Although some entrepren...

Selfishness Signs You Should Look Out For In A Relationship

We are often advised to practice self-care and take our own needs into account, but this can be hard when you’re in a relationship. How do you get the balance of self and another person right? The f...